Slowing Down?
Tuesday, August 31st, 2004
I’m trying to slow down a little this week. It worked at least for one day… on Monday afternoon, my dear friend Tony came over for tea. We drank way too much tea, ate way too many brownies, and knitted a fair amount. My stole for Heritage Spinning is nearly done, thank goodness. I just have to do about another inch or two.
I’m so glad Tony kept me sitting down and knitting for those several hours. It really helped me focus on the stole which is far overdue… plus we had a great time, talking about things that maybe don’t matter in the large scheme of things, but it was pleasant anyway. He was knitting a strap in Peace Fleece yarn, something simple to knit while we talked. I hated to see him go.
Tuesday night (August 31) is the 5th Tuesday in the month. That means that the folks who normally meet at Borders Arborland in Ann Arbor on 1st and 3rd Tuesdays, meet instead at Eastern Accents on 4th Street downtown, just east of Main and North of the big parking ramp. It’s next to a Mexican restaurant, too. I tried to find something on this business online and came up short, but it’s not terribly hard to find.
Eastern Accent is a Japanese (? asian, anyway) place, sort of a coffeehouse but with a lot of teas. They have asian pastries as well, which I’m told are delicious. It’s a nice cozy space for the smaller group that assembles on 5th Tuesdays.
I love this knitting group. I guess I just look for any excuse to be in Ann Arbor, if the truth be known. I guess I am an Ann Arborite wanna-be, yet I just can’t stomach the housing prices there enough to actually consider a move.
I go to Ann Arbor as often as I can justify it. It’s a real city, it acts like a much larger city, like Chicago (actually, it reminds me a lot of Cambridge, Massachusetts which is right near Boston)… people actually walk around on the sidewalks at night, people go into the city when weather is good for entertainment, there are all sorts of cafes with tables and it seems they are all full, even on a Tuesday. The streets of Ann Arbor do not roll up at 5pm, the way they do in Lansing for some reason. And Ann Arbor has a bit of a skyline as well. Now if it only would have a subway!!! I’ve used their public transit before, but they just have ordinary buses.
This is not to say that I don’t love my Lansing knitting friends. You know I do, you can see me choose to spend my time with them by just reading this weblog. And clearly I choose to live in Lansing, a city that always welcomes its arms to artful people, even when they are newcomers.
I have walked in, unknown, to auditions for Riverwalk Theater, and got in the show. They didn’t need to stick with an in-group. I have been welcomed into art groups, poetry and music circles. I’ve had places to display my artwork, to read my poetry, to sing my music, to do theater after 16 years off stage, to learn dance (adult ballet, jazz, modern, and mideastern) and perform dance. Lansing is a very open-arms community when it comes to the arts, and I love that. And now that we have some really good ethnic restaurants, I really am liking my city better all the time.
Yet my creative circle of friends is large. I have two guilds/groups in Ann Arbor (Borders‘ Common Threads group at Arborland and Ann Arbor Fiberarts Guild), one in Chelsea (Spinners Flock) and two in Lansing (Mid-Michigan Knitting Guild and Working Women Artists). I can’t go to all of them all of the time, although I do everything I can to not miss the 3rd Tuesday Mid-Michigan Knitting Guild meetings during the school year. That is my home base.
I have a lot of errands to run on Tuesday. I must finish them all before I can let myself go to Ann Arbor. You can be sure I’m pushing like crazy to get all that done. I can just taste the Sencha tea now…
(Photo today is a detail of the garden at Mich House Co-Op in Ann Arbor, a place where my brother lived in the late 1970s. The house is on North State Street (not too far from Kerrytown, a lovely historical area), right next door to the purple house called Minnie’s Co-Op. This garden is between two sidewalks, a porch and a driveway, but is full of wild-looking flowers that are very happy and healthy. I actually took the photo in July 2003.)



Wow, it is clear that we are at the end of summer. My schedule screams it… Sunday this past weekend I danced at
The week after Wheatland, we are going the
The concert has such limited seating that we will be taking reservations. You need only ask for an invitation, but we need to know how many chairs we need to rustle up for the event! Once you ask for the invitation you will be given directions to the location, which is a private home rather than a public space.
Well, Saturday night at Altus was again a great time! My mother, bless her soul, must have invited every person she knew. By the time they all got there, her friends and their friends, she had filled two booths and a small table with ten people!
OK, it’s Saturday. If you are reading this in the Greater Lansing, Michigan area, and you are reading before 6:30pm, please consider joining Brian and I (as The Fabulous Heftones) at Altu’s Ethiopian Cuisine for an intimate concert while you eat dinner. The show is at 6:30-8:30.
album. We also will have our old favorites from our
Aaah, the joys of summer. It is hot and sticky here. It has promised to rain but none has actually come down since Wednesday. I love hot summer weather, although I do not work as quickly when it is this warm.
It’s odd, because the peaches and the turning colors of the leaves remind me that the heat will be gone before I know it. We had almost no summer weather this year. Today it was 89F at our house but that may be the first time it has been that hot. I’m already sad for the cold weather and it has not even arrived yet! Silly me. I’ll be warm enough on Sunday, dancing all day.
Saturday and Sunday I did not have any classes to teach so I set out to meet people and see what goodies were for sale. I also spent time learning some things about knitting from
I made my way around the festival and talked to so many people. I saw Joan Sheridan Hoover of
But the coolest thing was meeting people who read this weblog. There were so many I am sure I’ll forget some (I did not take notes and I should have). It was so cool… I’d just be looking at some bit of wool or some beautiful yarn, and someone would come up and ask me if I was LynnH! Sure enough I was… and the story was always the same. They read this column right here and they were able to recognize me.
The names that I’m remembering right now are Laurie (Lori?) Knupka(?), Tonya (Tanya?) from Cadillac, and Carey from Alma. There were at least 5 of you, so I’m forgetting 2 names already and I’m so sorry! Please write me and remind me so I won’t forget very long.
I had a great time. I bought two more copies of Annie’s book (on her life and Combination Knitting). I need one for me, because I’m knitting combination when I knit flat stockinette pieces… and one for a student who instinctively started knitting this way. I got to know Annie. I got to talk to some great people. I got to teach some great people and encourage their creativitiy. (I got to dodge a skunk early one morning on a restroom run, but I am trying to forget that part.) I got to listen to some music, touch some wool, buy some lovely things, make new friends, and have as much fun as I’ve had in a very long time. I hope to repeat the fun again next year.
Photos: Beaded wire necklace I knit from a kit I got as a gift from Annie Modesitt. Two felted sculptures on display, created by schoolchildren. Signs of fall in the air, on the way back home… leaves turning due to cold snap, apples on the trees turning red, and wildflowers in front of a ripening field.
On Friday I taught my ColorJoy Stole class. This class is near and dear to my heart. So many of us have been taught to make things “match” when matching makes things less than interesting. The stole class is about color and yarn structure and texture for the morning session. It’s about getting the guts to break free from matching, and learning to choose with more variety, in order to create something artfully different than we have made before.
Two students brought an assortment of handspun yarns they made themselves. One chose to use all of her yarns and just add some eyelash for color and texture, to pull it all together (see photo). She was pretty surprised at how easily it all went together, when she started actually knitting her stole. The other one with handspun decided to use that yarn for a later project, and she started from scratch. She started with a lovely multicolored brushed mohair in pastels and worked out from there. She ended up with a lovely combination.
My student who added the class after taking my polymer clay session the day before, had not brought many yarns with her to Allegan. She started with two mostly cream yarns with blips of color in them, mostly teal, purple and burgundy. She found two colors of shiny ribbon, one teal green and one berry, and she found a teal eyelash to tie it all together. She will surely have a nice project when she is done (see photo #3).
After class, I wandered outside and heard music. I realized that I’d heard some of those songs before. My first instinct was to think that maybe Brian would know these musicians… he has been a musician in Michigan so long that he knows a lot of folks. Well, when I got there I knew two of the musicians myself! They were just taking a break, so Kathy and I sat down and did three numbers with her ukulele and our harmony, and that was great fun. Then I came back just before they ended for the night.
They invited me to join them for a trip to downtown Allegan. They went to a good ice cream parlor near the boardwalk, and then we walked down to a park with a gazebo where they have music on Friday nights during the summer. This night, the band was the Otsego Jazz Ensemble, a band I’d actually heard of in past years. It was quite the scene… folks of all ages. My friends knew the words to some of the Frank Sinatra-type songs, and really enjoyed that. I actually sat and knit while listening… still working on the ColorJoy stole for Heritage Spinning.
Well, I had such a good time at Allegan! Now that I have rested a bit I will take the time to tell you all about it.
Wednesday I got there in the afternoon and got settled in to the trailer, onsite, where
After her class, she came over to the trailer and we each made our own dinner. I tell you what… after five days in a tent last year, in 95 degree F weather, having a refrigerator, a microwave and a bed was quite a luxurious experience!!! I got good food all week (without worrying about ice melting in a cooler), which really helped my experience significantly.
After dinner we went outside and ran into
The next day I had my polymer clay class. I had 16 enrolled and 14 made it to class. We had such a wonderful time!!! It was really windy and I was in a sort of large gazebo with no walls, but we made the most of it, taking turns chasing down flying handouts at times. Can you see how great my students did? Here are photos of: my own workspace, Debbie with her creations, a couple of plates full of student works (check out those buttons in particular), and most of my students after class.
Unfortunately, I never did get a photo of Annie in her magnificent lace hats. You’ll want to check out her website and see those and more amazing pieces of work, including
Wow. I finally got home for a day with no to-do list and I really crashed. It is so wonderful to not have to stand up on my feet today! I fell asleep at 12:45 last night after I finally finished downloading my 1,935 email messages, on our 28.8 modem. (About 1,600 of those messages were junk mail, isn’t that a hassle?)
I had planned to hang out in the hammock today and knit my vest/shell from Sally Melville’s Purl Stitch book. Well, I couldn’t find my book. I wanted to knit my gauge swatch and didn’t even know what gauge I was supposed to be aiming for. I finally found it after Brian got home from work, about 8pm. Why I didn’t go out in the hammock anyway, I don’t know, but I did rest with my feet up on the couch and the front door open. Maybe I’m just tired of being out in the great outdoors or something.
I did feel awake enough to go outside and water my beloved flowers and veggies/herbs. Some of them really missed me, some didn’t notice I was gone. That’s life. I’ll definitely notice which did fine, at least in cool weather in August, so I can try those again next year. I’m gone a lot every August, it seems, and this is the real test of my plants.
I am already reaching out to friends in town, some of whom I’ve not seen in weeks and weeks. I’m re-establishing my roots here in Lansing, I guess. Today was about slowing down and remembering the art of relationship and friendship. It looks like I’ll be having tea with Sharon P of
Well, it was a few days later than her actual birthday, but we had a party for Mom today. We celebrated her 70 years on this earth! Mom was not expected by the doctors to live, when she was born. She was a premature baby on the Iron Range of Minnesota. Fortunately, her mother, my Grandma Illa, had gone to college in Public Health and insisted that Mom would live. When the doctors allowed Mom to turn blue from cold, Grandma insisted that they release her from the hospital with her baby, or she was going to walk out without a release. They did release her, and she took Mom home.
Everyone in the community wanted to see this tiny 4 pound baby. Grandma wouldn’t let them near. In order for the two older siblings to hold Mom, they had to wear a mask over their face in case they might sneeze or otherwise transmit germs to her. Grandma kept Mom on top of the refrigerator where heat would rise and make it warmer for her. I sure am glad my Grandma knew that my Mom could make it and do well! Here she is, 70 years later and a prizewinning ballroom dancer among other things. I wanna be like my Mom when I grow up!!!
I gave mom a video of the Habibi Dancers annual concert we did in April when she was in Florida, and a pair of socks I knit with peasant/afterthought heels. The yarn came from
The meal was great at Aladdin’s as usual, and Ali, one of the owners, took this photo for us. (Left to right: Diana, Eric, Brian, Fred, Mom and I… my family and our partners… it was great that Brian could get free from work and join us at lunch like that.) Ali also gave us all a rice pudding on the house when he realized it was Mom’s 70th birthday. How sweet was that? They have *really* good rice pudding, too… the best I’ve had in Lansing.
I helped my friend Altu with her food booth at the Michigan Folk Festival this Friday, Saturday and Sunday. I was in the booth most of the time. Saturday I took one hour to go see the Afghani musicians and their
incredible dancer. Sunday I took almost one hour to dance with the mideastern musicians, at least two of whom I’ve danced to before when they played for our Habibi Dancers spring concert two or three years ago. World class, they are! It was wonderful to dance to their music again.
Also, I did get out in time from the food booth, to do a little dancing at the dance tent before things closed up for good. Brian and I danced to the Zydeco band on Friday. I watched people dance to the French Canadian band once and on Saturday I watched the polka band get the crowd going, including doing the chicken dance. Too fun! The crowd was having a wonderful time.
On Sunday at the very end, the Zydeco band was playing again. I went to the dance tent where Altu was dancing with her niece, who is about 5 years old. This child and I met about 2 years ago at a wedding shower where most of the people were speaking their primary language which was not English. I found that even if I did not know the language, I could certainly dance and have a wonderful time at the party.
So I danced. And the children danced. And later, the adults also danced. This little girl kept watching me and finally I encouraged her to dance with me. We had a wonderful time! Now she calls me “My Dancing Lady” and we dance even when we run into each other at Altu’s restaurant, to whatever music happens to be playing at the time. We have such fun!!!
Brian joined us and we danced, mostly by making a chain of three, first Brian… then me and the little girl. Brian took a few pictures while we were dancing, by just holding up his camera as we danced. I like what he got!!!
The photos here are: crowd taken by Brian; Altu’s niece spinning around with me holding her hand, also by Brian; dancing crowd including we three dancing, by Brian; a blind man I see often in East Lansing, dancing enthusiastically… you should have seen him go wild… to the mideast
ensemble (I took this photo and the rest which follow); a closer look at the mideastern band; folks dancing a Lebanese line dance called a debke… many of the dancers from the local restaurant called Woody’s Oasis; the polka
band playing the chicken dance and an enthusiastic crowd dancing along; and two photos of the incredibly beautiful Afghani dancer. I could do an entire page of photos just of her! I took about 20 photos of her, and there was not one bad shot in the bunch, she was so beautiful.



