A Gentle, Happy Day
Tuesday, May 31st, 2005Summertime
Aaah. Today it finally felt like summer. It was a full day, but a gentle day. I started with my modern dance class, followed by a performance at a 100th birthday party with two other Habibis.
You know, things like this don’t get me nervous any more. I love this sort of performance. I do get some adrenaline rush just from the need to stay on top of my dancing itself, but stage fright is not part of the process any longer. I’m grateful for having had so many opportunities to perform (be they music, theatre or dance) in my life, that I can put those days behind me. Don’t get me wrong, I still make mistakes. They just don’t immobilize me… and the prospect of the next one doesn’t keep me from going back on stage. I need to be on stage much more than I need to be perfect, I guess.
100th Birthday Party Show
We danced for a gentleman who, although in a wheelchair, was 100 years spry and chipper. In fact partway through one dance, he exclaimed “yeah!” out loud. That is the right kind of audience, you know? His party was a very fine event indeed, with friends and family and folks who live in the same building as he does joining in the fun.
I got the loveliest compliment after the show. Mrs. Anderson, who regularly comes to our Aladdin’s performances, is also a dancer. She told me today that I always look like I’m happy to be dancing. What a fine thing to hear! I’m delighted. After all, it is about entertaining. And isn’t it comfortable to watch a performer who looks happy? I hope so, I think so.
More City Gardening
After the performance, I had time to run a few errands. I picked up a tomato plant for my back landing. I did that last year for the first time. Tomato plants are so pretty in a city garden! I have room for only one large bush. This one already has a handful of tomatoes growing and several bunches of flowers blooming. I look forward to a good year in tomato growing!
I then looked around at quite a few places for a large ceramic pot to put it in. I just do not like those plastic lightweight pots. But boy! Some of the pots big enough for what I wanted were pricey! I found them priced anywhere between $30 to $100 at most of the places I looked.
Fortunately, I was at the Frandor Shopping Center. After checking out JoAnn Fabric Superstore (which has a lot of beautiful pots 50% off but those still ended up higher than I wanted to pay), and World Market, and Michaels, I walked past Kroger grocery and they had a little outdoor gardening area. I found a 14″ pot glazed blue for $9.99. You gotta love that!
I collected some food for dinner and headed home. Because it is my beloved Brian’s birthday today!
My Man’s Birthday, Too!
I did finish one full ball of yarn on the first sock for Brian yesterday. If he wanted a shortish sock leg it could be done now. However, he’d really like the thicker socks to have a higher leg since he’d wear them most in cooler weather. I need to go visit the boyz at Threadbear again soon and collect one more ball. Meanwhile, I started the toe of the second sock (these are toe-up with afterthought heel, my current favorite structure).
I made a stir fry for Brian’s birthday dinner. Red and yellow bell peppers, onions, and seitan (a Japanese vegetarian protein source that is remarkably close to the texture of meat). Flavored with tandoori spice (as in that red-colored chicken found at so many Indian restaurants) and orange juice. It was pretty good, though I should have been a little more daring with the seasoning… it was a bit mild.
Birthday Pie
Then I went back out in the garden and picked some rhubarb for Brian’s birthday “pie.” It’s really rhubarb crisp, a fruit dessert with oatmeal crumbly topping. Rhubarb, for those not in areas that grow it, is a plant that has huge leaves and stalks that look a little like red celery but without the strings. The leaves are poisonous. However, if you cut the stalks into small bits and add LOTS of sugar (it’s powerfully tart stuff) and other ingredients, you get a tart dessert. One that folks either adore or despise.
There seems no in-between opinion on rhubarb. I think it tastes closest to cranberries/lingonberries or very tart lemon. We love it at our house. Mom loves it, too. She grows rhubarb plants in the beds around her house instead of small bushes. It’s quite decorative, and tasty!!! I could eat rhubarb every week, but it’s good I don’t like to bake that often or I’d look a lot plumper in my dance costumes!!!
More to Come
I do want to tell you about Brian’s socks but I’m going to put that off for another day. And soon enough, you will get more photos than you asked for, of my plants. Today you get photos of our birthday party performance.
1)Me as Eudora in front, Yasmina Amal (my teacher and our Troupe Director) behind me. 2)Maya playing finger cymbals. 3)Eudora again, showing off the new Egyptian dress. 4)Yasmina Amal at her glowing best. Isn’t she beautiful?


Yet all three of us sitting there agreed that on Saturday night, we surveyed the possible knitting projects, noted that nothing sounded particularly good, and considered just going to bed early. We were actually bored. We figured maybe it was the way the planets were aligned or something… it was just too odd for it to happen just that way without some reason!
Saturday I had my big “dirt day” of the year. My hands were black and my fingernails were packed with soil. I know others enjoy that process, but for me it’s just something I have to force myself through.
We had a lot of fun Friday with Wally Pleasant at the Harmonium House Concert in Charlotte. Of course, it was a holiday weekend so folks had many things they could do that night, but we literally filled the space by the end of the concert, with folks filtering in a little at a time as they finished with other obligations.
I was delighted to see some folks I knew, but who had not made it to our concerts before. Since Wally also performed, there were also a good number of folks we had not met before and that made it extra fun.
Bless her, my dear friend Donna did her best to take photos with my camera, but unknown to us the camera was on a last gasp with its batteries. She is always willing to be my photographer, and I am truly grateful.
Thursday was wonderful. I started my day with my friend Altu. We sat together for an hour or two, outside in the rare sunshine (it lasted only a few hours but we had great timing), at a table at the Beaners Cafe’ in Okemos. We talked and laughed and listened and sipped and talked again. We have not had nearly enough time together since we got back from Africa. It was wonderful to have that time together again.
Between Altu and Foster Center, I ran to Lansing Gardens and bought a whole lot of lovely flowers for my gardens. I do not enjoy digging in dirt at all, but I absolutely love having flowers in my yard. I water plants happily, and I don’t mind picking off the wilted flower blossoms, but I just don’t like the feel of any stuff stuck to my hands. Especially gritty stuff! 

We had an efficient trip home, with little sleep beforehand. We left Minnesota at 7:30am their time, 8:30am our time. We got home somewhere around 11pm.
While I was in Michigami at the gorgeous resort, I finished this pair of socks. That makes 114 pair to date.
I’ve been on the road with the Habibi Dancers now for two days. We left Lansing around 9am on Thursday, had lunch right around the Mackinac Bridge (which connects the lower peninsula of Michigan to the upper peninsula), visited a wonderful park in Marquette (a place I really had wanted to see in a previous trip up there) and had dinner at an Italian restaurant in Ishpeming.
However on Thursday we took turns in the sauna, and about six of us played cards, and a couple of us took turns reading, sewing costume parts (there is always one more bead to add to any costume no matter how long you have had it), and I knit and did a little crochet.
was young it was an iron mining town. Her father was the principal of the school, and her mother was the teacher until she married. In those days, married women were not allowed to teach. They did not want children to see a pregnant woman, apparently. Times have sure changed! Grandma finally was allowed to teach again during the labor shortages of World War II.
Well, I didn’t go to the final Knitting Guild event Tuesday night. I just am still holding on to my energy level, and I need to feel better Saturday so I can dance (in Virginia, MN, about an hour north of Duluth).
This post is especially for my mom! May 17 is
Well, I sat on the couch with my ribbed tank and I did a single crochet scoop neck I can live with. Thanks to Linda of
And here is another set of finished objects, this time from
Comment Woes
Now, this is positively the worst option… to let people spend time typing a comment and then have them get a rejection notice *after* they comment. Aaargh (as my friend Charlie would say)!
Altu’s mom always made sure I had a thermos full of tea the whole time I was at her house (in Ethiopia), and it nearly always was flavored with something, be it ginger, cloves or another spice or herb. The photo here is a cup o’tea at Altu’s mom’s house with a green herb (on the right of the saucer) that grows in their garden. It had a very strong oil in it, very good in moderation.
Well, I’ve been really good. I stayed on the couch almost the whole time from 8pm Thursday till 2pm Saturday, with just two small errands in there. I drank liquids, took Vitamin C and my antihistamine. I felt sort of crummy Thurs/Fri but it was OK on the couch. Saturday I started to feel better. Except I’m coughing a lot, and that messed up my voice.
Friends, good food is an artform. And the best food is often “peasant food” as I reconfirmed in Africa. (Our best meals in Egypt were described as peasant fare, and although the people I stayed with in Ethiopia and Kenya were far from peasants, some of the food they had me taste included national favorites enjoyed by all people, regardless of financial standing.)
Sometimes a batch of things just sort of go funky all at the same time. The good news is that I have such great people in my life that the “things” don’t seem so big.
that point, I think. The house only one block from Foster Community Center, in the very wonderful, culturally-mixed, racially-mixed, age-mixed area called the East Side Neighborhood. That house was an ugly little harvest-gold-painted bungalow from the outside, but I loved it.
When I moved to Brian’s house (now our house), he had a porch that was on its way out. I really missed my old, ugly porch. Well, about 3 years ago Brian had another porch put on the house. Oh, my! What a difference a porch can make! Our house is on a somewhat busy residential street because we live between two campuses of a hospital, and folks shuttle through the ‘hood all day between those two hospital locations.
Well, Tuesday we had wonderful weather. We had dinner on our porch as we often do this time of year. Then we decided to play music out there for a while.
Tuesday was Mother’s day for my family. I picked up my Mom and we drove to Ann Arbor, to meet my brother (Eric) and his wife, Diana. We had a late lunch/early dinner at
We ate outdoors in the garden area under a canopy. This is the life! It was 76 degrees F when we left Lansing, a perfect summery day. Flowers are blooming everywhere (Achoo!!!), and the maple pollen is bad right now, too, but it’s really beautiful. It was a gorgeous day for a drive.
My private student made a water-bottle cozy the other day (smart for hot days where the water warms up and the bottle sweats) and started another, I will be interested to see how she has done with that. She wanted to try double-pointed needles (DPNs), and doing these with fat wool yarn on fat DPNs has worked well for her.
I had a good Sunday. Brian had a performance with Scarlet Runner String Band at Woldumar Nature Center that morning. I went, and Mom and Fred met us there. I love this gig (they do it every year, once for spring pancake supper and once in the fall). The guys usually play for contra dances, all instrumentals. I’m extremely partial to songs, that is music with words sung along. This gig is more songs than tunes (tunes have no words) and I really enjoy it!
After Brian’s band played, a clogging group performed. We left, so that we could get it together and go to Grand Rapids to visit Brian’s family. I was planning a big knitting day (it’s 2 hours in the car round trip) and was ready to start a new project. Do you think I had the right needles at home? Do you think I could find them the first place I went? Nope… took a bit of a search before I got it right.
We stopped by and got the circs on the way. I started knitting… 192 stitches in the round on size 2 needles. I don’t want to think about that too much. This top will probably take as many stitches as five pair of Fast Florida Footies. I’m used to fast projects. This one might not be fast at all.

Fun, Fun, Fun!!!!! That’s how my Friday night went. It couldn’t have been better.
I’m really still about 3 years old inside, but don’t tell anyone. I’m doing the same thing as the dress-up we did on Grandma Illa’s farm. (Karen, my cousin, reads this blog sometimes… Karen, do you remember the long gloves and hats, too? Somewhere there are great photos of us dressing up at the farm.)
She was strong! She had not one of my hands but both of them, and she would not let me twirl her around. She just wanted to look at me and my dress and she did not want to stop. The other customers seemed to appreciate it, but it sure did limit my ability to dance, to a few moves that involved hips and footwork. She was a doll.
The first day with Nabil, we went to
It became apparent after a while, that folks in the market help each other out. I would ask for hot pink (or turquoise or purple) costumes, they would disappear. They would come to me with a tiny pink costume, about 30″ around if that. I couldn’t get it around one leg, I think! I’d decline, and we’d go to the next shop, where I’d be presented with the same too-small costume! I am guessing that shopkeepers share the sale profit if they help each other that way… one person finds the customer and the other provides the merchandise. I never did fit into that pink thing!
After what seemed like hours and hours, I was getting pretty tired of trying on costumes, none of which fit me well enough to spend $25, much less hundreds. I found myself in a nicer-than-most loft shop, basically a hallway with shelves on both sides, the stairway on one end and a window at the other. One wall had three costumes actually hanging there on display. The center one was a turquoise dress. It was beautiful, but I’d learned at least in the US, that those dresses were soooo long, both in length and waist, that I could not wear them. There is beaded trim on the hem so it is nearly impossible to alter these dresses.
I was changing out of the dress, Nabil’s voice came around the corner. He said: “My lady, you can not have that dress.” I asked why. He said it was too expensive. We had to translate from Egyptian Pounds to US Dollars, but it came out significantly less than the $400 I had budgeted. I tried to tell him that it was OK. He would not budge.
We had already planned a trip to Giza and the Pyramids for the next day. We spent morning and part of the afternoon on that trip. When we got back to Cairo, we insisted… “Nabil, The Dress!!! Take us to the Dress!” We knew that we could not find it without his help. Thank goodness for me that he was clear that his job was to make us happy and take us where we wanted to go.